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Perhubungan dan Batasan Antara Lelaki Perempuan
I am a Muslim Arab youth. I got to know a Muslim girl of Arab origin who lives overseas, through the internet. It was – and still is – a relationship within the limits of the laws of Allaah, because, praise be to Allaah, I fear Allaah a great deal. I love her and she loves me because she is a committed Muslim girl, and she also fears Allaah. Our love is for the sake of Allaah, in sha Allaah.
I proposed marriage to her, and she accepted and agreed, and I praised Allaah for answering my du’aa’ by blessing me with a righteous wife, especially since I have wanted to get married and settle down for a number of years. She told her mother, who is a non-Arab, and she agreed at first, because her father had been away from them from a while. Her father recently returned, and she was happy, but he had come to tell his daughter to get ready to marry a man from her father’s country, without asking his daughter’s opinion of the prospective groom. She is afraid of him because he beats her sometimes, and she sometimes says that he is crazy; may Allaah guide us and him.
She told me that she does not want to marry this man and that she wants to marry me, and I told her the same thing. She said to me: What do you think of marrying me in secret, then we tell her father what has happened. She is over 18 years of age.



I asked a sister for her hand in marriage on-line and we talk to each other casually on the internet; is it allowed to speak to her even though I am not able to get married until I graduate (in 3 years).
was salamu alaykum


Well a year from now one of my friend, a girl, had introduced me to one of her online brother..and we have been talkin online for about a year now. Its not like we have ever talked about anything indecent, we talk in a well respected manner, and he sometimes jokes around,too. We both are aware of our religion..and we know how it is haraam to have girlfriends or boyfriends. But over time we both hav grown interested in each other.. and he has told me that he wants to marry me, but right now is too soon, i m only 16 and will be 17 in 2 months... the situation is too hard to explain...and i am really confused on what should be done..and what shouldnt. I really dont want to do anything that is Haraam or isnt right.. and i do have faith in Allah..that if he is good for me oneday we will be together... So i just needed some advice on this.. is talkin to a non-mahram guy online wrong?.. And this is the only way we know each other which is through internet...we havent met..but we have seen each other's pictures.. Well i hope all this makes sense to you..and you will be able to help me out here, cause right now i really need it.. i have been lookin through ur site and trying to learn more about our religion..and it is mashallah a good source.. but me still confused..about this situation... we havent done anything wrong..just talk online.. and hoping that Allah will guide us to be together... but the question that keeps coming up on my mind is if Islaamicaly is all this acceptable.. i have talked to other ppl..and he has talked to people too..and some say its wrong...and some say its ok as long as our niyyat is good and we havent done anything wrong.
please give me some advice here..thank you.. khuda hafiz

What is more stable in Islam, a love marriage or an arranged marriage?


Is love that ends in marriage haraam?.

I am a young man and fell in love with our neighbour’s daughter. That went on for two years without her knowing and without me telling her or anyone among my family, and without me meeting her. I was hoping that she would become my wife. Then I had a car accident that left me with extensive injuries and I became almost disabled. I was very worried because the dream that I had of marrying that girl seemed to be slipping away, then suddenly m my sister asked me to tell her frankly what was worrying me, and I told her what was on my mind. My sister said to me: I am going to tell her of your love for her and after that she can choose. The surprise was that she also loved me, and we began to exchange messages of love via my sister (messages that were, by Allaah, noble and chaste). After two years I proposed marriage to her and she agreed, praise be to Allaah. After one year we got married and we lived happily, and during that period I only saw her from afar, because they are our neighbours and we would meet by accident. I never spoke to her except on the wedding night. I have heard that because of our love for one another we have committed a sin. Is this correct? What is the expiation for that sin?.

I am a 24 years old girl. I fell in love, no dates, no meetings involved, pure love to a pure religious person. He promised to marry me and asked me to wait for him as his circumstances are difficult. I do not remember that he called me more than once. I asked him not to call me; because I feel this is wrong, although I love him. I felt that our love started going in the direction, he agreed to this feeling, and respected my opinion. He just sends me E-mails every so often via internet, so that I know his news. We have been in this love relationship for one year. I know this person and his family, and they know us well as well. I love him for Allah’s sake and sure he loves me as well. The problem is that I started receiving proposals, about 8 so far. Every time I refuse because I promised to wait for him. Now I am confused, is what I am doing halal or haram? I pray, Alhamdulillah, all obligatory and optional prayers, and pray qiyaam in the night as well; I fear I lose my good deeds because of what I am doing. Is a pure chaste love haram? Is my love to him halal or haram?.


I am a sister, who usually logs in to Paltalk and then goes to the Islamic rooms so that I may gain some knowledge related to our religion. Sometimes while I am in one of those Islamic rooms in Paltalk,a muslim brother(looking for a wife) in the room asks me to have a private written chat with him so that we get to know one another. Some of the questions he asks me are: where i live, my age, whether i am married(by the way I am not married), if I am planning to get marry, whether I live with my parents, and so on. My problem is, I don't know whether I am allowed(Islamicly) to give non-muharim brother those kinds of informations which related to me.
Is it really SIN to talk to a brother in writing ??.


I have a cousin (daughter of my maternal aunt) who seems to be religiously committed and of good character, but I do not know much about her personality and outlook on life, or how well we would get along. I used the internet as a means to get to know her, whilst being very careful to adhere to proper etiquette, especially since we come from a conservative family. Praise be to Allaah, I reached the decision to marry her in sha Allah, but it may take two years or more until I am ready, because I am still a student in the last year of university.
My question is: Is what I did permissible? Especially since it went on for nearly a year, because the customs of marriage in our society do not allow one partner to get to know the character of the other until they get engaged, but after that if it becomes clear that the two are not compatible and they cancel the engagement, that will lead to problems and severing of family ties. I feel worried about what I did and I am afraid that it may be considered a sin or an act of treachery. It is permissible to continue our correspondence until I come and propose marriage to her?.

I am a girl who believes in Allaah and His Messenger. Is it permissible for me to correspond with a young man through what is known as the “Pen pal corner”?.

i have a question thats bothering me alot for a while now..and i recently got divorce about a year now and i have no kids, its been a year now. my question is since i didnt' knew the guy before i got married and i got married to hum coz my parents thought he was nice for me..now since it happened with me i thought it would be nice if i know somebody before i get married not in a sense of dating but just talking and knowing whether he is a right person or wrong.. the point is i dont' want to hurt myself or end uplike this again so my question is does islam allows a girl to pick the guy and marriage i want some information regarding this.. i would appreciate your help

Internet relationships

She is afraid that her marriage may not be successful because she got to know him before marriage

I am a young Arab man who lives according to our Arab traditions, or what is known as a good attitude and etiquette, but this commitment has nothing to do with adhering to Islamic teachings, because in our country adhering to tradition does not contradict listening to music, mixing, dealing with riba-based banks and so on. I proposed marriage to a girl in the same environment that I am living in, and her family have been friends of my family for a long time. They all approved of the marriage since they know that we are both of good character. But my problem, unfortunately, started when I began to read about the rules on marriage in Islam and I started to reduce mixing and to pray regularly in the mosque and let my beard grow and not deal with riba-based banks and not listen to music and so on. Now both families are regarding me as an extremist, except those on whom Allaah has mercy, and they started to make this girl afraid of me, even though she loves me very much and has told them all about that many times. The girl wants to be committed but she is not able to do some things such as wearing niqaab or covering the face. So she too regards these things as signs of extremism in religion, as her family do.
Should I forget about this girl who is of good character and proper etiquette and who is keen to pray and recite the adhkaar of the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and is trying to be committed, and who loves me and tells others of that, and does not want to lose me, but she is unable to do some things that have to do with religion, such as covering her face, and look for someone else who is committed but whose family and behaviour I do not know and my judgement of her will be only according to what I hear from those who know her family and behaviour?

Can muslim guy and girl could go out on a date before their marriage? If they do then what would be the consequences of that? What does Islam says about going out before marriage?

I read the hadiths about the prophet peace be upon him allowing the man to see the woman before deciding whether to marry her or not. My questions is, what exactelly is the person allowed to see exactelly?
Is he allowed to see her hair (entire head) ?

Tentang Khitbah / Pertunangan
What is the concept of engagement in Islam. Usually an engagement party is one in which the fiance/fiancee exchange rings. Is this the prescribed method in the shariah?.

Is it forbidden for muslims to declare the engagement (alkhotoba)? If yes, who are the people supposed to know about the engagement?
Are Close friends allowed to know about it??.

A year ago I proposed marriage to a girl and we reached an agreement on all issues, but the engagement has now gone on for a long time. Now I want to do the marriage contract, but her family are refusing and they say that she is still studying, and I have to wait three years until she finishes her studies in the university, then we can get married.
I do not know whether it is haraam for the engagement to last so long or not. I appreciate your website.

Does a brother has any legal bond on a sister he has intentions to Marry? What I actually mean is: a brother is interested in a sister and wants to marry her, however, another brother wants to marry her also but he does not want to engage her as yet (Kitbah). because one brother wants to marry the sister does that mean that the other brother should stay away?

Konsep saya tentang cinta
http://islamqa.info/en/ref/82941/love

Hubungan Rakyat dengan Pemerintah

Saya mengambil peluang ini untuk kongsikan dengan pembaca blog ini tentang penerangan yang saya kira akan jadi sesuatu yang sangat berharga bagi semua yang masih keliru. Dengan ini kita tidak akan menoleh ke belakang lagi, dan kita boleh teruskan hidup kita tanpa ragu-ragu lagi. Biar satu dunia mengatakan kita salah, seandainya kita berpegang kepada apa yang Allah kata, apa yang Rasul kata, tidak ada sebab lagi untuk kita ragu-ragu dengan apa yang kita percaya.

diambil dari http://abuaqif.blogspot.com/2012/03/hubungan-rakyat-dengan-pemerintah.html

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HUBUNGAN RAKYAT DENGAN PEMERINTAH

Abu Omar, Idris bin Sulaiman
Idrissulaiman@yahoo.com


1. TUNTUTAN SUPAYA UMAT ISLAM BERSATU & LARANGAN BERPECAH-BELAH

Firman Allah:

وَاعْتَصِمُواْ بِحَبْلِ اللّهِ جَمِيعاً وَلاَ تَفَرَّقُواْ

“Dan berpegang teguhlah kamu sekalian kepada tali Allah (Agama Islam), dan jangan kamu bercerai-berai” (Surah: Al-Imraan, 103)

Firman Allah:

وَأَطِيعُواْ اللّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ وَلاَ تَنَازَعُواْ فَتَفْشَلُواْ وَتَذْهَبَ رِيحُكُمْ وَاصْبِرُواْ إِنَّ اللّهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ

“Dan taatlah kamu kepada Allah dan RasulNya, dan janganlah kamu berbalah; kalau tidak nescaya kamu akan menjadi lemah dan kekuatan kamu akan hilang; dan bersabarlah; sesungguhnya Allah bersama dengan orang-orang yang sabar.” (Surah: Al-Anfaal, 46)

Firman Allah:

مِنَ الَّذِينَ فَرَّقُوا دِينَهُمْ وَكَانُوا شِيَعاً كُلُّ حِزْبٍ بِمَا لَدَيْهِمْ فَرِحُونَ وَلَا تَكُونُوا مِنَ الْمُشْرِكِينَ

“Dan janganlah kamu tergolong dalam golongan orang-orang musyrikin. (Iaitu) mereka yang telah memecah-belahkan agama mereka dan menjadi berpuak-puak; setiap puak berbangga dengan apa yang ada padanya.” (Surah: Al-Rum, 31-32)

Firman Allah:

وَأَنَّ هَـذَا صِرَاطِي مُسْتَقِيماً فَاتَّبِعُوهُ وَلاَ تَتَّبِعُواْ السُّبُلَ فَتَفَرَّقَ بِكُمْ عَن سَبِيلِهِ ذَلِكُمْ وَصَّاكُم بِهِ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

“Dan sesungguhnya inilah jalanKu yang lurus, maka turutilah ia; dan jangan kamu turuti jalan-jalan (yang selainnya), kerana ia (jalan-jalan itu) mencerai-beraikan kamu dari jalan Allah.” (Surah: Al-An’am, 153)


2. KEWAJIPAN BERSATU DI BAWAH SEORANG PEMERINTAH NEGARA

Firman Allah:

﴿ أَطِيعُوا اللهَ وَأَطِيعُوا الرَّسُولَ وَأُولِي الأَمْرِ مِنْكُمْ ﴾

“Taatilah Allah dan taatilah Rasul serta ulil amri (pemerintah) daripada kalangan kamu.” (Surah: Al-Nisaa’, 59)

Sabda Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam:

مَنْ أطَاعَنِي فَقَدْ أطَاعَ اللهَ، وَمَنْ عَصَانِي فَقَدْ عَصَى اللهَ، وَمَنْ يُطِعِ الأَمِيرَ فَقَدْ أطَاعَنِي، وَمَنْ يَعصِ الأميرَ فَقَدْ عَصَانِي

“Barangsiapa mentaatiku dia telah mentaati Allah, dan barangsiapa derhaka terhadapku dia telah derhaka terhadap Allah; dan barangsiapa yang mentaati pemerintahnya dia telah mentaatiku, dan barangsiapa yang derhaka terhadap pemerintahnya dia telah derhaka terhadapku.” (Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim)

Sabda Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam:

﴿ مَنْ رَأى مِنْ أمِيرِهِ شَيْئًا يَكْرَهُهُ فَلْيَصْبِرُ عَلَيْهِ فَإنَّهُ مَنْ فَارَقَ الجَمَاعَةَ شِبْرًا فَمَاتَ، إلا مَاتَ مِيتَةً جَاهِلِيَّةً ﴾

“Barangsiapa melihat sesuatu yang dibencinya pada pemerintahnya hendaklah dia bersabar terhadapnya; sesungguhnya barangsiapa yang keluar daripada jemaah (orang Islam) sebanyak sejengkal, lalu dia mati, dia telah mati dalam keadaan jahiliah.” (Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim)

"Mati dalam keadaan jahiliah bererti mati dalam kesesatan dan bukan jatuh kafir" (Ibnu Hajar, Fathulbari).


3. TAAT KEPADA PEMERINTAH WALAUPUN MEREKA TIDAK LAYAK

Sabda Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam:

﴿اسْمَعُوا وَأَطِيعُوا وَإِنِ اسْتُعْمِلَ عَلَيْكُمْ عَبْدٌ حَبَشِيٌّ كَأَنَّ رَأْسَهُ زَبِيبَةٌ﴾

“Hendaklah kamu dengar dan taat walaupun kamu diperintah oleh seorang hamba Habsyi yang (rambut) kepalanya umpama (buah) kismis.” (Riwayat Bukhari)


4. TAAT KEPADA PEMERINTAH WALAUPUN MEREKA ZALIM

Seperti tidak berhukum dengan hukum Allah, menyeleweng, rasuah, mengaut harta kekayaan negara, sekular ataupun membunuh rakyat (sebagaimana yang dilakukan oleh Al-Hajjaj bin Yusof pada zaman Ibnu Omar t & Al-Makmun, Al-Muktasim dan Al-Wathiq pada zaman Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal.

Sabda Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam:

سَأَلَ سَلَمَةُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ الْجُعْفِيُّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ أَرَأَيْتَ إِنْ قَامَتْ عَلَيْنَا أُمَرَاءُ يَسْأَلُونَا حَقَّهُمْ وَيَمْنَعُونَا حَقَّنَا فَمَا تَأْمُرُنَا فَأَعْرَضَ عَنْهُ ثُمَّ سَأَلَهُ فَأَعْرَضَ عَنْهُ ثُمَّ وَقَالَ اسْمَعُوا وَأَطِيعُوا فَإِنَّمَا عَلَيْهِمْ مَا حُمِّلُوا وَعَلَيْكُمْ مَا حُمِّلْتُمْ

“Salamah bin Yazid Al-Ju’fi t bertanya kepada Rasulullah r dan berkata: Wahai Nabi Allah, bagaimana sekiranya kami diperintah oleh pemerintah yang meminta hak mereka tetapi tidak memberi hak kami. Apa yang patut kami lakukan? Baginda berpaling daripadanya. Dia bertanya lagi, lalu Rasulullah bersabda, “Hendaklah kamu dengar dan patuh, mereka akan memikul tanggungjawab mereka dan kamu akan memikul tanggungjawab kamu.” (Riwayat Muslim)

Sabda Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam:

﴿ يَكُونُ بَعْدِي أَئِمَّةٌ لا يَهْتَدُونَ بِهُدَايَ وَلا يَسْتَنُّونَ بِسُنَّتِي وَسَيَقُومُ فِيهِمْ رِجَالٌ قُلُوبُهُمْ قُلُوبُ الشَّيَاطِينِ فِي جِثْمَانِ إِنْسٍ ﴾ قَالَ حُذَيْفَةَ : قُلْتُ : كَيْفَ أصْنَعُ يَا رَسُولُ اللهِ إِنْ أَدْرَكْتُ ذَلِكَ ؟ قَالَ ﴿ تَسْمَعْ وَتُطِيعَ الأمِيرِ وَإِنْ ضَرَبَ ظَهْرَكَ وَأَخَذَ مَالَكَ فَاسْمَعْ وَأَطِعْ﴾

“Setelah pemergianku akan ada pemerintah yang tidak beramal dengan petunjukku mahupun dengan Sunnahku, dan akan ada di kalangan mereka lelaki yang hati mereka (seperti) hati syaitan dalam badan manusia.” Berkata Huzaifah (perawi hadis): Saya bertanya: Apa yang perlu aku lakukan sekiranya aku berdepan dengannya? Sabda Baginda: “Engkau dengar dan patuh terhadap pemerintah walaupun dia memukul belakangmu dan mengambil hartamu. Kamu dengar dan patuh.” (Riwayat Muslim)

Sabda Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam:

﴿ ألا مَنْ وُلِيَ عَلَيْهِ وَالٍ، فَرَآهُ يَأتِي شَيْئاً مِنْ مَعْصِيَةِ اللهِ، فَلْيَكْرَه مَا يَأتِي مِنْ مَعْصِيَةِ اللهِ، وَلا يَنْزَعَنَّ يَداً مِنْ طَاعَة ﴾

“Barangsiapa daripada kalangan kamu yang diperintah oleh pemerintah yang dilihat melakukan hal-hal kemaksiatan, maka hendaklah dia membenci kemaksiatan itu dan jangan (pula) dia menarik tangan ketaatannya.” (Riwayat Muslim)

5. TIDAK ADA APA JUA ALASAN MEMBOLEHKAN MENENTANG KERAJAAN

Walaupun undang-undang manusia (taghut) membenarkan; atas alasan amar makruf nahi mungkar, menghalang/menentang kezaliman, ingin islah (melakukan pembaikan) dan seumpamanya.

Sabda Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam:

﴿مَنْ خَلَعَ يَداً مِنْ طَاعَةٍ لَقِيَ اللهَ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ وَلا حُجَّةَ لَهُ ، وَمَنْ مَاتَ وَلَيْسَ في عُنُقِهِ بَيْعَةٌ ، مَاتَ مِيتَةً جَاهِلِيَّةً﴾

“Barangsiapa yang menarik tangan ketaatannya, dia akan bertemu Allah tanpa alasan, dan barangsiapa yang mati tanpa bai’ah (sumpah taat setia kepada pemerintah) di lehernya, dia telah mati dalam keadaan jahiliah.” (Riwayat Muslim)


6. KETAATAN HANYA DALAM PERKARA MAKRUF

Sabda Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam:

﴿عَلَى المَرْءِ الْمُسْلِمِ السَّمْعُ والطَّاعَةُ فِيمَا أحَبَّ وكَرِهَ ، إلا أنْ يُؤْمَرَ بِمَعْصِيةٍ ، فَإنْ أُمِرَ بِمَعْصِيةٍ فَلا سَمْعَ وَلا طَاعَةَ ﴾

“Wajib atas seorang Muslim untuk mendengar dan patuh dalam perkara yang disukai dan yang dibenci, kecuali jika disuruh melakukan maksiat; sekiranya disuruh melakukan maksiat maka tidak ada ketaataan (dalam hal kemaksiatan itu).” (Riwayat Muslim)


7. LARANGAN MENGEJI PEMERINTAH

Sabda Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam:

﴿ مَنْ أهانَ سُلطَانَ اللهِ في الأرْضِ أَهَانَهُ الله ﴾

“Barangsiapa yang menghina pemerintah (yang dilantik) Allah di atas muka bumi, Allah akan menghina dia.” (Hadis Hasan, Riwayat Al-Tirmizi)

Sabda Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam:

لاَ تَسُبُّوا أُمَرَاءَكُمْ وَلاَ تَغِشُّوهُمْ وَلاَ تُبْغِضُوْهُمْ وَاتَّقُوا اللهَ وَاصْبِرُوا فَإِنَّ الأَمْرَ قَرِيبٌ

"Janganlah kalian mencela pemimpin kalian, jangan pula berbuat curang dan membenci mereka. Bertakwalah kepada Allah dan bersabarlah, karena sesungguhnya urusan itu dekat" (Hadits shahih, Riwayat Ibnu Abi Ashim)

Berkata Abu Al-Dardaa’:

“Sesungguhnya tanda awal kemunafikan seseorang itu adalah dengan dia mengeji pemerintahnya.” (Riwayat Muslim)


8. TIDAK MEMBUKA AIB MEREKA DI KHALAYAK RAMAI

Sabda Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam:

مَنْ أَرَادَ أَنْ يَنْصَحَ لِذِي سُلْطَانٍ فَلَا يُبْدِهِ عَلَانِيَةً، وَلَكِنْ يَأْخُذُ بِيَدِهِ فَيَخْلُوا بِهِ، فَإِنْ قَبِلَ مِنْهُ فَذَاكَ، وَإِلَّا كَانَ قَدْ أَدَّى الَّذِي عَلَيْهِ

“Barangsiapa ingin menasihati pemerintah maka janganlah dia melakukannya secara terbuka, sebaliknya hendaklah dia mengambil tangannya (pemerintah itu) dan (menasihatnya secara) tertutup; sekiranya dia menerimanya maka itu yang diinginkan dan jika tidak, maka dia telah menunaikan tanggungjawabnya.” (Riwayat Ibnu Abi Al-Asim dalam Kitab Al-Sunnahnya. Disahihkan oleh Sy. Albani)


9. WAJIB MEMPERTAHANKAN PEMERINTAH

Sabda Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam:

﴿إِنَّهُ سَيَكُونُ هَنَاتٌ وَهَنَاتٌ فَمَنْ أَرَادَ أَنْ يُفَرِّقَ أَمْرَ هَذِهِ الْأُمَّةِ وَهِيَ جَمِيعٌ فَاضْرِبُوهُ بِالسَّيْفِ كَائِنًا مَنْ كانَ﴾

“Akan timbul kerosakan dan kejahatan, maka barangsiapa yang ingin memecah-belahkan perpaduan Umat ini, hendaklah kamu memenggalnya dengan pedang walau sesiapapun dia.” (Riwayat Muslim)


10. KENYATAAN PARA ULAMA

Berkata Imam Ahmad r.h:

وَمَنْ خَرَجَ عَلى إِمَامٍ مِنْ أَئِمَّةِ الْمُسْلِمِينَ وَقَدْ كَانُوا اجْتَمعُوا عَلَيْهِ وَأقَرُّوا بِالخِلافَةِ بِأَيّ وَجْهٍ كَانَ بِالرِّضَا أَو الْغَلَبَة فَقَدْ شَقَّ هَذَا الْخَارِجُ عَصَا الْمُسْلِمِينَ وَخَالَفَ الْآثَارُ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ فَإِنْ مَاتَ الْخَارِجُ عَلَيْهِ مَاتَ مِيتَةً جَاهِلِيَّةً

“Barangsiapa keluar menentang pemerintah orang Islam yang telah dipersetujui dan telah dilantik menjadi khalifah dengan apa jua cara; sama ada dengan redha atau terpaksa; sesungguhnya orang yang menentang itu telah keluar dari jemaah orang Islam serta menyelisihi Sunnah Rasulullah, dan sekiranya dia mati, dia mati dalam keadaan jahiliah.” (Usul Al-Sunnah oleh Imam Ahmad)

Berkata Imam Al-Nawawi r.h:

لَا تُنَازِعُوا وُلَاةَ الْأُمُورَ فِي وِلَايَتِهِمْ وَلَا تَعْتَرِضُوا عَلَيْهِمْ إِلَّا أَنْ تَرَوْا مِنْهُمْ مُنْكَرًا مُحَقَّقًا تَعْلَمُونَهُ مِنْ قَوَاعِدِ الْإِسْلَامِ فَإِذَا رَأَيْتُمْ ذَلِكَ فَأَنْكِرُوهُ عَلَيْهِمْ وَقُولُوا بِالْحَقِّ حَيْثُ مَا كُنْتُمْ ، وَأَمَّا الْخُرُوجُ عَلَيْهِمْ وَقِتَالُهُمْ فَحَرَامٌ بِإِجْمَاعِ الْمُسْلِمِينَ وَإِنْ كَانُوا فَسَقَةً ظَالِمِينَ وَقَدْ تَظَاهَرَتِ الْأَحَادِيثُ بِمَعْنَى مَا ذَكَرْتُهُ وَأَجْمَعَ أَهْلُ السُّنَّةِ أَنَّهُ لَا يَنْعَزِلُ السُّلْطَانُ بِالْفِسْقِ

“Jangan kamu menyelisihi pemerintah dalam urusan pemerintahan mereka dan jangan kamu membangkang mereka, kecuali jika kamu melihat suatu kemungkaran yang pasti berdasarkan kaedah-kaedah Islam. Jika kamu melihat begitu, hendaklah kamu mengingkarinya serta berkata yang hak di mana jua kamu berada. Adapun menentang mereka serta memerangi mereka, ia adalah haram menurut ijmak (persepakatan) Umat Islam walaupun mereka fasik dan zalim. Hadis-Hadis cukup jelas dalam hal ini dan Ulama Ahli Sunnah telah ijmak (sepakat) bahawa pemerintah tidak boleh diturunkan dengan hanya kerana kefasikan mereka.” (Syarah Sahih Muslim oleh Imam Al-Nawawi)


وَصلَّى الله عَلى نَبِيِّنَا مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَى آلهِ وَصَحْبِهِ وَسَلَّم

Kajang, 24 Mac 2012
Idrissulaiman@yahoo.com

Jiwa Parah

Baca blog orang, dan dia tulis,

"keliru juga lah dgn masalah-masalah sekeliling hari ini. minta kita memilih yang betul."

Memang pun. Susah habis rasanya nak hidup dalam dunia ni sekarang. Tak berani nak pilih apa pun.
Mungkin, solusinya adalah kesederhanaan. Dan kepercayaan yang tak berbelah bahagi kepada Tuhan.


Berlaku Jujur dengan Allah

Dapat gambar ni dari blog orang. Saje share.

dapat dari sini - http://kangensyurga.blogspot.com/2012/04/jujur-dengan-allah.html

Ada orang letak self-worth pada material, benda-benda.
Ada orang yang faham dah tak letak lagi self-worth dia pada benda-benda, sebab percaya "Yang paling mulia di antara kamu ialah yang bertakwa".

Tapi bila bersalah, rasa macam tak ada lagi tempat untuk berpaut. Hilang dua dunia.



Pandai mentafsir

Hari itu, tiba-tiba seorang kawan ni semangat la pulak nak tengok apa isi kandungan buku tulis saya. Rupa-rupanya saya ada tulis sesuatu dalam tu. Benda yang saya post atas tajuk Ujian. Dia kata best. Siap ambil gambar guna handphone lagi.

Saya tanya dia, apa yang dia faham. Sebab sebelum tu dia kata, dia faham. Dia kata lagi, dia pun pernah merasainya.

Lepas dengar jawapan dia, saya tergamam sebab jawapan dia tepat. Haha. Senang je rupanya nak tafsir kata-kata saya.

"Mungkin tak sepatutnya
mendongak ke atas
Sebab akan ternampak langit.
Langit kalau ditenung, direnung
akan terasa semakin tinggi dan tinggi.
Juga kerana bencinya pada bisikan-bisikan
yang mendewa-dewakan langit.


Langit adalah makhluk Tuhan,
biarpun sempurna tak ada cacat cela
ianya tak kekal.


Pecahkanlah berhala-berhala pujian dan sembahan
Padam hapuskanlah bisikan-bisikan setan."



Majlis perpisahan 6th year

Hmm. Saya memang dah lama dah tak terlibat pun dengan program-program KUV. Baru-baru ni mereka anjurkan majlis untuk kami 6th year.

Pagi itu, di kelas ada seorang kawan saya cakap, "batch kita memang tak menonjolkan? Macam tak wujud, tak terlibat dengan aktiviti-aktiviti pelajar volgo. Tak macam batch lain"

Salah. Kalau kita yang tak terlibat atau libatkan diri dengan aktiviti-aktiviti kat sini, memanglah tak nampak apa-apa, jadi baik diam. Jujur saya cakap saya bangga batch saya ada nadzrul, faiz, anuar, ramdan, kak Ma, masayu dan mungkin ada lagi yang lain tapi saya tak nampak.

Masing-masing akan nampak apa yang mereka biasa buat je kot. Tapi saya special case. Walaupun saya jenis tak buat apa-apa dan malas, saya ada keupayaan untuk iktiraf apa yang orang lain dah buat.

Nak dijadikan cerita, masa majlis tu saya dapat hadiah dari KUV. Saya seorang je pulak tu. Takpe. Anggap sebab saya pernah jadi pres mereka suatu masa dulu.

Kawan saya buat lawak dengan saya, " Eehhh??! Jap, kenapa ko dapat hadiah? Apa sebenarnya yang ko dah buat?"
haha, kawan yang rapat memang suka perli. Saya jawab, "Entahlah. Anggap je aku ada pernah buat something...(sambil tergelak)"

Kawan saya yang lain pulak ada menambah, "Mungkin jasa ko kat KUV ni adalah ko berjaya untuk pass kan kelab tu daripada generasi lepas ke generasi sekarang. Kau berjaya buat kelab tak terkubur...kerja kau untuk pass je sebenarnya". Macam orang yang dalam lecture hall tolong pass kan kertas dari orang belakang ke orang depan. Tukang pass. xD

Tenkiu semua. Saya dah lama tak dapat hadiah berupa gambar saya yang di'frame'kan. Mujur tak disertakan sekali dengan kalungan bunga pada gambar tersebut. Saya juga suka kata-kata di dalamnya,

"May you always have wall for the winds,
A roof for the rain, tea beside the fire,
Laughter to cheer you, those you love near you,
And all your heart may desire"

Ok selamat malam.